Sunday, December 20, 2015

Staying Safe in Mindanao

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This post is actually a response to a comment we had on RTTP asking for an honest and true account of what it’s like to live in Mindanao as an expat. I thought the response deserved more attention and so have decided to publish it as a post.


Much of the advice that Mitchell offers is applicable to living anywhere in the Philippines and indeed any country where YOU are the foreigner and YOU are the visitor.


Here’s the response…


Hi Kevin,


Yes, I agree, there are conflicting reviews on the internet. Most of the negative comments are mostly from people who have never been to the region. For all intents and purposes, my looks are European, coming from a Spanish-French ancestry. I’ve learned to be part of the scenery. I can tell you how good Iligan and Cagayan is, but this would be biased, because I have family and friends in these areas.


The key word to your safety is to be a friend. There is a Canadian, Kyle “Kulas” Jennerman, who has been living in Cagayan de Oro for the last three years, and have traveled nearly all of Mindanao, mostly alone, sometimes with a friend. If you want to see videos of Iligan City and Cagayan de Oro, and Mindanao, and the rest of the Philippines, look for his facebook page, Becoming Filipino, or his website by the same name. Kulas has lots of videos. Youtube also have videos by locals of Iligan and “CDO”, as some people fondly call Cagayan.


I don’t know how old you are but age shouldn’t matter. Intent matters, because this will affect how people relate to you. If you’re travelling alone, some people will think that you’re there to find a “wife”, or sex. Be sober. If you’re a drinker, stay in hotels with security guards. Don’t be alarmed if the guards are armed.


Be a friend. Say “ma-ayong boontag” (good morning) ma-ayo means good “ma-ayong adlaw” (broad “a”) (good day), “ma-ayong gabi-i” (good evening or night). Say “salamat” (thank you), or “palihoog” (please)


Public transport is completely different to the UK. Everyone speaks English. It would be a good idea to familiarise yourself with the money and words used in relation to money. Taxi’s are available and expensive. Buses – take your pick, jeepneys are the most common, use jeepneys for the experience. Ask the driver to stop at a specific place and let him know that your not familiar. “Dili ko anad”.


Plan your daily trip. Ask for help from the locals. Trust your feelings about someone. There are opportunistic people, like anywhere else. Smile always. A grumpy face attract grumpy people.


Don’t be demanding – always say please.


Do not flash your money/wallet. Only have enough money for the day’s trip. A thick billfold, bulging and visible while in your pocket, will attract people.


Pre-book your accommodation. Don’t assume, ask, if you’re thinking of a specific thing like air-conditioning and room service.


Dress like the locals. By this I mean – don’t flash your western name branded clothes. Some locals will dress like that. But that’s them, and they’re local.


Iligan and Cagayan de Oro are full of Westerners. More so in Cebu.


Depends what you want to see or experience. You haven’t really asked any question. I can be more specific. Your mention of “home office” tells me you’re not a “regular” traveler.


I don’t have a business. I have nothing to promote other than how beautiful the place and people of Iligan and Cagayan are. Be a beautiful person, and the beauty of the place will be revealed to you by the locals.


Never a good idea to broadcast your trip/itinerary on the internet. The aussie that got kidnapped about three years ago was a victim of circumstances. He was married to a local – had an argument – upset some people – kidnappings can be arranged. He also wrote about his trips around the world. Naturally, some people thought that he was rich, and a target.


Be a friend. Be visible. Go where there are a lot of people. People are most likely to help you, and protect you from other opportunistic people, if you are a friend.


If you’re only travelling between Iligan and Cagayan, visit their city government’s respective websites. There are plenty of sand and seas and rivers to enjoy. People are friendly, if you are friendly.


yours,


Mitchell Badelles


If you have any specific questions for Mitchell then please feel free to post them in the comments below. Please keep your comments short and to the point as the comment section is not the place for lengthy posts and explanations.


Thanks for your understanding and have a great time in the Philippines!



Staying Safe in Mindanao

Saturday, December 5, 2015

Christmas in the Philippines

christmas-philippines-religon“Maligayang Pasko Sa Inyong Lahat” or Merry Christmas to Everyone!


The typical Filipino does not need much of an excuse to celebrate and party. Christmas in the Philippines is no exception. The manifestations of the onset of Christmas start here as early as September. That is when you first notice the street vendors and stalls selling their Christmas lighting and decorations. It is a sight particularly noticeable after dusk when you cannot fail to see the twinkling, flashing lights of reindeers and other Christmas paraphernalia.


There is no room here for “bah humbug” type sentiments I used to hear back in the UK – “Oh – I can’t get in the mood for Christmas” type of comment. I suggest if you can’t align yourself with the wonderful Filipino festive mood and traditions then either move or lock yourself indoors for several months!


Pasko


Christmas or “Pasko”, is traditional here in the Philippines for two very good reasons. One being the Spanish influence and the introduction of Catholicism to these islands. Secondly, it is an example of what Filipinos do best of all – look after their family. When you merge the two, then it is no wonder that Christmas is a long season here full of fun, love, the giving of gifts, paying respect to elders, eating and of course celebrating the meaning of Christmas. The Philippines is unique in Asia in that it is a predominantly Christian country.


The celebration of Christmas in the Philippines begins on the 16th of December and ends on the first Sunday of January which is the Feast of the Epiphany (The Three Kings). It is quite different from the other countries of the world. It is the longest of the Philippines festivities stretching for over 3 weeks. This makes the Filipino Christmas celebration one of the longest Christmas seasons in the world. A rich tradition which, as I say, dates back to the Spanish period.


This is also the time of the year when family get together, especially when family members from overseas come home with lots of gifts called “pasalubong.” The exchanging of gifts and the family feast are the highlights of this most loved of celebrations.


Just like in Europe and the United States, you will see some houses adorned with Christmas lighting. That, and the street vendors selling their Christmas decorations, is when you first realize that Christmas is getting near. These are some of the other features of a typical Filipino Christmas, some are familiar to the foreigner and others not so familiar –


Carol Singing


By around late November or early December you’ll be pleasantly surprised when some children and even adults turn up at your gate singing Christmas Carols. It’s delightful and they are in tune! Give them a few pesos and a hearty, friendly Merry Christmas and all is well with the world.


Simbang Gabi


Simbang Gabi, or Night Mass, is a nine day Roman Catholic ritual novena ending on December 24. In fact, it is a devotional series of masses to honor the Blessed Virgin Mary and in anticipation of Christmas. They are held early in the morning between 3 am – 5 am and culminate in the Misa de Gallo, or Roosters mass.


Parol – Filipino Christmas Lantern


As early as November, Filipinos’ houses, offices, and schools, as well as the shopping malls and even streets are adorned with these star-shaped multicolored lanterns. It makes for a colorful spectacle.


The Giving and Exchanging of Gifts


One of the Filipino traditions during Christmas is the exchange of gifts between families or friends. A simple way of exchanging gifts is bringing a gift to the office or school Christmas party of which the amount is agreed upon by the participants.


There are variations on this theme and in offices for example, it is usual for the exchange to take place over three days. The first day is something red, then something green. The third day can be inventive like something sweet and even something gross! (Don’t ask!) This exchanging of gifts is called Kris Kringle or the Monito/Monita.


I am informed that there are differences between these two systems of exchange but I fear it was lost on me in translation! This Pinoy system is a modification of the Secret Santa (certain western countries), Kris Kringle or Christkindl (German), Sinter Klass in Dutch, Father Christmas in England and Pere Noel in France.


Noche Buena


The Noche Buena (literally meaning “Good Night”) in the Philippines is a much-anticipated traditional Christmas Eve feast and eaten after the Midnight Mass when the family return home from mass.

Noche Buena is a very special occasion for Filipinos. They often use their best china and silverware and cook their best family favorite recipe. The most popular dishes are morcon, embutido, relyenong bangus, lumpia, pancit, and for those who can afford it – the lechon or roasted pig.


Suman Sa Ibos or Sumang Pasko (glutinous rice wrapped in banana leaves or coconut leaves) served with Halayang Ube and leche flan (egg custard) are the most popular desserts.


Noche Buena is a statement of the Filipino Family close ties. It is not only about food; it is a family tradition.


Christmas Day


Once again, Christmas Day in The Philippines is primarily a family affair. For those who were not able to attend the Midnight Mass, there are masses celebrated during the day and usually in the late afternoon. Most families with young children usually attend this mass. Children wear their new clothes and shoes to go to mass and after the mass, they visit members of the extended family, notably the elders in order to pay their respect.


Pagmamano


This custom called “Pagmamano” has been an age-old tradition in the Philippines and is accomplished by a child placing the forehead to the elder’s hand and saying, “Mano Po”, a term of respect. The elder then blesses the person who paid respect. “Aguinaldo” is a response by the elder and can be in the form of a gift or money given after the Pagmamano, most usually to the younger children.


Christmas Lunch


This is usually a reunion of family members accompanied by yet another special meal. Christmas Day is a time for children to visit their uncles, aunts, godmothers and godfathers. Usually children are presented with a gift, candy, money or toys. Kids love to count their “aguinaldos” as they go about on the Christmas round of visits.


Christmas in the Philippines is ultimately about family closeness and kinship and is one more reflection on the importance of family in this country.


Maligayang Pasko Sa Inyong Lahat!



Christmas in the Philippines